I’ve been hearing quite often now of people being very confused in life. They are not pretty sure about what they are doing or where their life is heading to. They feel frustrated about it and are really rearing to do something about it. So what exactly is this? How many of us are going through this?
Some even call this “the mid-life crisis.” They feel that they go through a series of feelings like: Unhappiness with life and the lifestyle that may have provided them with happiness for many years. Boredom with people and things that may have been of interest to them before. Feeling a need for adventure and change. Questioning the choices, they have made in their lives and the validity of. decisions they made years before. Confusion about who they are and where they are going. Anger on friends,spouse and close ones and blame for feeling tied down. Unable to make decisions about where they want to go with their life. A few said it was because youngsters these days were lazy and didn’t wanna work hard and wanted to earn easy money. Some were of the opinion that they were just unhappy with their career and wanted to something different like making their hobby their career path, but were confused with the path or their future. They were also worried about the social pressure. Some of them like who were just out of college were ready to experiment to find their right path and not rush into things.
So how do we come out of this confusion? What could be the possible solution? First thing you got to have is patience. You lose your control over your mind, you are just getting into more mess. Losing your self-esteem or getting angry on others is just not gonna solve your woes. It’ll just add up to it. Keep yourself calm and composed. Never have a negative approach to things. Think of the possibilities and opportunities in front of you. In today’s scenario you have enough opportunities to explore your talent. Believe in yourself and say to yourself that you can change things. There is nothing impossible if you have the will to change it. Step out and welcome the world approaching you. You decide to bring change,the path ‘ll follow you or you’ll learn to find your path on your own. All dreams come true if we have the courage to pursue them. Go with your inner gut. Never have doubts in your talent. All of us wanna play safe and don’t wanna risk anything in life, in this process we are just not able to take that big step forward. So wake up get going and do that which you think you cannot do, so that you don’t look back and regret about not doing what you wanted to do.
The most rewarding things you do in life are often the ones that look like they cannot be done.
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